Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Finding Relationships while Transitioning

Here lately I have noticed that it has been hard trying to find someone who will be willing to date someone who is trans especially going from male to female, but why. Is that we are not conforming to binary norms, is it because we are inferior to others? I feel that people are afraid of us because they feel that we need to fill some kind of lurking shadow of love and honestly all we are looking for is just someone to say I am here for you I love you and I will support you no matter what. Most of us are just looking for that one connection with someone to say that everything will be okay and that I am here for you no matter what happens or what you are on the outside you are who you are and I accept. But why is this so hard for people to do? I tell you why cause of a lack of education and a lack of understanding once we can break the wall of fear down and get people to understand us and understand what we are going through and to have empathy love and a relationship will be around every corner, hopefully.

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